Because it was given to you.

You can respond to life by living it.

Live as yourself.

And don’t forget; life speaks to you very clearly, very honestly and sharply.

Let your response be clear, specific and inspiring.

Most importantly, the secrets of life are not behind a mountain or in a treasure chest.

It is hidden in front of your eyes.

Read, understand and use that information.

Do not be afraid.

Life has been given to you so that you can live it.

It wants you to find the secrets of how to live within.

Is your heart broken?

Love again.

Are you lost in life?

Rediscover yourself.

Are you tired?

Learn to rest.

Have you lost?

Win again.

Are you weak?

Get stronger.

Did you get sick?

Get well.

Get bored?

Be patient.

Are you scared?

Dare.

Did you quit?

Be passionate again.

Are you angry?

Calm down.

Are you bored?

Move on.

Did you fall?

Get up.

Have you lost hope?

Hope again.

Did you cry?

Smile.

Are you silent?

Talk.

It’s time to live as yourself, get free from excuses, justifications, and fears.

I am waiting for you.

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No more or less.

Don’t worry, if what you have is real, it will be enough for you.

Is it difficult to understand?

For example, you don’t need to love too much.

If the love you have is enough for everything, why would you need more?

This is just like inflation in money.

If your money has a value, its purchasing power is also high.

If your money is less valuable, you will need more money to buy something.

That’s why you want enough in your life instead of too much.

Don’t worry, what you want enough will already be strong enough.

If your love, desire and words are strong, it will be enough for you.

While you love, you desire and you live, create those that are real and meaningful enough, not many.

Do not forget.

There is no such thing as too much love. There is love in the full sense.

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Everything doesn’t seem so easy, does it?

Yes, I understand.

Many things in your life need to change.

Things to leave behind and new beginnings.

Things to learn and things to forget.

Things that want to add to your life, goals, peace, or happiness…

And many more.

You are right. It should not be as easy as it seems to guess where to start with these thoughts.

In addition to all these, it is not always easy to create the time, money, and energy to spare for this journey.

In their own lives, many people are tossed around with justifiable excuses.

Don’t let this happen in your life.

Waiting, delaying, or hoping for the change you will make in your life must be the devil’s favorite food.

Because yes, the devil expects you to wait.

Getting the happiness, love, and success you deserve in your own life is much easier than you think.

For this, I will first introduce you to yourself and then to the facts that hinder you and give you strength that you have not noticed until now.

Then we will shape the goal of who you want to be and how you want to live, and it will happen in a very short time!

You can be sure that it is much easier to believe what I write than to believe that some things cannot be solved in life.

I’m ready when you’re ready to start.

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“Everyone around me loves me very much, but for some reason, I can’t enjoy life. Everything feels pointless and hopeless, and I always see myself being used.”

It was surprising that such a smiling and good person would say these things while eating the beautiful cookies she made with her hands and brought to our first session.

All the teachings and social studies had always taught her how good it was to give and that would make her happy.

But the one thing she wasn’t taught was to receive.

However, the entire universe, the Earth, and even the breath we take had a balance of inhalation and exhalation.

My client couldn’t get what she deserved and even, she couldn’t ask for it.

Even on her birthdays, the gifts given to her inwardly embarrassed her rather than made her happy.

While everyone knew her as a proud resourceful woman who didn’t need anyone, what happened was that she couldn’t ask for any help, right, or anything she wanted.

She was emotionally starving and struggling financially to be good enough.

I shared with her the secrets of what giving means, how it is balancing and enriching.

Needless to say, she is now experiencing the happiness of getting her value and right in her new life that she redesigned.

I thank her for being vulnerable and courageous.

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Are you ready?

What is the meaning of life?

Please think about this carefully.

A lot of questions go through your mind, right?

On this beautiful day, I give you the answer without making you wait too long;

Life has no meaning!

What you add to your life and life has meaning!

In short, you are the meaning.

You are sometimes joy, sometimes love, longing, kindness, sometimes hope.

Take a look at yourself, how meaningful you are!

Whether you admit it or not, that’s how it is and that’s great!

Then let’s go a little further with you.

So, what other meanings do you want to come to in life?

What is the message you will give to yourself and people, what is your manifesto to shout out?

Please don’t look at the screen so surprised, that’s you.

The first thing you need to do is find out what beautiful meanings you express, whether people know it or not.

And then to decide what emotion and meaning you will make people feel and experience from now on. How exciting it is!

We find water meaningful not because it is water, but because it gives us life, right?

Now it’s your turn.

Let the festivities begin to celebrate yourself and the meanings you express!

Whether you start the celebrations by pouring a nice cup of coffee, feel the wind of the leaves of a beautiful book on your face, or start the sport you’ve been waiting for.

Or best of all, let’s go on a unique journey with you.

The decision is yours. It will always be yours.

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Sex is not always making love, making love is not loving, loving is not being together, being together is not dating, and dating is not being a partner.

I’m giving you this careful explanation because at times in life we ​​get them mixed up and that’s why we pay a price, sometimes a big price.

Yes, you can be with someone, but it may not be enough to have a love for him, you may love someone very much, but it may not be enough to fall in love with him.

Just because you’re in love doesn’t mean you want to be his partner.

The important question is:

What do you want?

Have you ever confused the issues I mentioned above in your relationships?

Let’s unleash your magic on these important topics that will be the jewel of your life together with you.

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Because, yes, every light needs darkness to shine.

All the problems in your life are asking you to enlighten them with the light of your compassion, love, effort, care, and patience.

You know the light cannot be seen!

The light is reflected.

That’s why the sun is in love with the planets in the solar system. If there were no planets, the light of the sun would disappear in the dark space.

Whereas, the sun realizes and knows itself by looking at the planet on which it is reflected and by warming it.

You will also know yourself by solving your problems through illuminating the problems in your life.

The darkness in your life can sometimes be your lover, spouse, child, family, job, or health.

You will know the power and richness of who you are with the light you reflect on these dark areas.

It is time to stop seeing only the problems and be thankful for the light that allows you to see the problems in this darkness.

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You must pay attention to the seasons of your emotions to keep these and more.

Because a happy and healthy person has seasons of emotions. Just like mother earth.

We, humans, are the children of Mother Earth, we take the breath she gives us, we drink the water she gives us, we get warm with her, we get cold with her, we live in balance and richness in her natural cycle.

Each season of our Mother Earth contains the secrets of a different change, balance, life, and death, thus creating an endless cycle, life, and improvement for us.

At this point, all that is left to you is to know that your emotions have seasons and to allow them.

You should notice how those who always want to experience summer in their feelings become manic, how those who always want to live in spring get lost in their dreaminess, how those always want to be in autumn live in depression, or how who always want to live in winter become cold.

Live the seasons of your emotions to the fullest.

Sometimes you will be blown away in the cold storms inside, sometimes you will go on journeys in the rainy chills, sometimes it will open new excitements inside you, and sometimes you will warm yourself with love and affection.

Don’t forget to live the seasons for your emotional and mental health.

If you feel stuck in a season, very cold, wet or the sun is on your feelings, I will be waiting for you here with my conversations made of hot coffees and cool lemonades.

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